Hey y'all i have decide to start posting a blog!! So anyway i have decided that the first post shall be about me!!
Im in that stage where you are learning what is right and what is wrong... the only thing about this stage is it sucks:
1. You have to make mistakes to learn from them... bleh!!
2. You have to learn to deal with criticism... I know this is hard!!
3. You have to learn when to accept help... sometimes help is the only thing that causes you to make it through.
4. You need to learn when to accept the blame... also when the blame is not yours to accept... you heard me dont push your problems off on others, but if you cant control it then dont let what you cant control, control your life.
Life loves to toss you down when you are at your low points the thing is dont let it... live life... be what you can be... and DONT WORRY ABOUT THE THINGS YOU CANT CHANGE!!
Some people come into your life and hurt you... also some people dont intentionally hurt you the fact is it just happens... its how you deal with it that makes you a bigger person.
Sometimes in life the big things are the hardest to deal with... but i wouldnt recoment doing anything drastic, do things such as :
1. Dont fight fire with fire... in that case you only get burned
2. Dont think everything is your fault
3. Dont feel guilty for other people's problems that you cant help
4. If someone hurts you turn around and show them an act of kindness... Believe me I know this is hard
5. Dont punish yourself... you dont need to do that
6. And if you cant control something then realize its not your fault
I know my recommendations as to what things to do are a lil hypocritical. The reason I know this is i have a problem with these things... but I am told that it would help to follow the steps that i shared. I sometimes askmyself why and wonder why people do some of the horrid things they do... but im trying to quit.
Man its hard to quit thinking about all the bad things in life sometimes, but it also helps to have a lil encouragement and plenty of friends to fall back on... it also doesnt hurt to cry sometimes.
Sometimes nothing seems to help... but remember when that happens that it could be worse... it will definitely get better. Never do anything drastic.
Bottom Line is...
DONT HURT OTHERS OR BE MEAN TO OTHERS... ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE GOING IN THROUGH. PEOPLE LIE AND PRETEND EVERYTHING IS OK WHEN IN ALL ACTUALITY IT IS NOT! THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO BE A GOOD FRIEND AND HELP AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.
Sorry if that was a little dreary and if my advice was a lil long. I have said my piece... I hope it helps someone.
Well anyways... until next time...
Brittany
